In a lifetime, we all make decisions that we would like to revisit. We may, inadvertently or intentionally, hurt others. Due to lack of understanding, we may say things that we would wish to take back. We may make behavioral choices that are misguided or ill-advised. That is the nature of the human experiment, in my opinion. I have often said, "Earth is a controlled experiment, and we are NOT the control group". Maybe in a future life, I will find out if that thought is correct!
I think that, if we allow ourselves to dwell on those things that we believe were 'wrongs' - either committed by us or aimed at us, we are subjecting ourselves to a purgatory of the mind. I've heard it said, "Let go, let God". While my personal definition of the Almighty Spirit may be different than yours, "Let Go" is critical to ones' personal health and happiness.
Each and every moment, there is potential to sense something spectacular ~~ even spiritual. To allow yourself the freedom to experience those moments, is to have "let go". It's a choice, to accept what has been - and your responsibility in it - and then move forward into the next moment without the mental and spiritual baggage.
Each sunrise brings healing light. Trust in Mother Earth, and pay attention. She controls the environment in which we live, and she is challenging us greatly these days. Technology, in all it's awesome power to predict and educate, does not control the forces of the Universe. Each of us is a tiny fraction of that life-force. How we nurture and protect our own fraction impacts other fractions.
That I exist in this realm is a gift, and my intent is to be grateful and enjoy it to the best of my ability. In failure, I have learned my greatest lessons. In sorrow, I have found joyous laughter. From heartbreak, love has emerged.
Have Faith in yourself, in the Creator, in the Universe. Trust that the forces beyond your comprehension, understand. Choose to let go of the past hurts and negativity, and give yourself over to the moments that reward you with sunlight, laughter, scents and senses. Live each moment with positive intent, and the Universe will reward you beyond your imagination.
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"The man who sat on the ground in his tipi
meditating on life and its meaning, accepting the kinship of all creatures
and acknowledging unity with the universe of things
was infusing into his being the true essence of civilization.
And when native man left off this form of development,
his humanization was retarded in growth."
Chief Luther Standing Bear, Ota Kte (Dec. 1868 - Feb 20, 1939)